Family photo with Norsuhaida and daughters
Last month we talked to Stephen Van Huizen, who helmed the Malaysian National Men’s Hockey team as coach
and has led our country to many successes in the international hockey arena.
This month, we speak to another RSC Hockey Section member, Muhammad Dhaarma Raj Abdullah, who not
only played for Malaysia is his younger days, but also coached our Malaysian Women’s Hockey Team nicknamed
Malaysian Tigress.
1. Tell us a little bit about yourself and your
family?
I was born on 16th November in Melaka, am 51
years old this year, and currently residing in
Jakarta, Indonesia.
My family consist of 8 siblings – 4 boys, 4 girls.
My elder brother, Embaraj and I played for the
National Men’s Hockey team, whilst my younger
brother, Vijayaraj was in the National Junior
Hockey team. So, all 3 brothers excelled in
hockey, except for my eldest brother who was
sent to India at a young age.
My father did not play hockey, but was very
supportive in our hockey careers.
Although I was the 7th child (2nd youngest
sibling) in the family, I was very outspoken even
at a young age and ‘make things happen’.
One of my memories playing with Embaraj was
in the qualifying rounds for 1992 Olympics,
where he scored 2 goals resulting in a 3-2 win
over India. We played a 2-man defence, and both
brothers were holding the defensive fort for
Malaysia!
Unfortunately, he injured himself just before the
games, and I had to go to the Olympics without
him.
All 3 of us did not get a chance to play together
in the national team, but we played for Melaka in
a couple of tournaments.
I am happily married to Norsuhaida and blessed
with 3 wonderful daughters - Dharnisha Nur
Amelda, Dharnieya Nur Amelsa dan Dharfiesa
Nur Amelya. They sacrificed a lot for me, as I
spent so much time in my coaching activities,
and I am glad that they were understanding all
these years in my coaching career.
In my free time, I try my
best to spend as much time
as possible with my family.
2. How did you start
playing hockey and at
what age did you start?
Please elaborate any
extraordinary moments
in your early hockey
playing days that you
remember.
I started to play hockey at
the age of 8 with a broken
stick which I nailed together and a ‘hockey ball’ made
out of rolled-up newspaper
at home, inspired by my
elder brother K.Embaraj
who was already playing for
St Francis Institution.
When I was 10, I joined a school hockey program ran by Mr Terry Lee (many SFI boys would remember him as
an instrumental hockey figure back then).
By 12, I was the school hockey captain and eventually, selected as the Melaka MSSM state hockey captain in the
U-15 and U-18 teams in the later years.
3. Do you play other sports? If yes, what are the other sports, and why did you decide to choose hockey
as your main sport?
Yes, I did. I was involved in athletics as a runner in the 400m, 800m, 1,500m and 3,000m events.
I also played cricket and softball for my school. In fact, I was a very good softball player (playing as a pitcher) and
was the captain of the softball team. But softball was not a popular sport back then, so I started to focus on playing
hockey.
Family trip to Sabah and with mum at home in Melaka
4. Which school did you study at and was there a hockey coach that inspired/motivated you at that time?
Please tell us any specific occasions that you remember.
SFI was a very famous hockey school, producing good hockey players even before I took up hockey. Mr Terry Lee
(who passed away recently in 2019) was very passionate about the game and taught me all my hockey basics. He
was very instrumental throughout my hockey career, in school until my moving into the national team. I remember speaking to our King (who was MHC President then), when I was the national junior team coach,
during the Men’s Hockey Junior Asia Cup in 2012 in Melaka about Mr Terry Lee, and invited him to join us for
a tea session. It was really nice to have him being introduced to the players and the MHC officials as the person
who brought me into hockey.
5. Tell us more about your hockey playing career and achievements.
I was selected to be part of the training team in preparation for the 1989 Junior World Cup in Ipoh.
Immediately after 1989 Junior World Cup, I was selected to play for the senior national men’s hockey team and
had the opportunity to train under Terry Walsh.
Having the privilege to have played at the highest level, at the Olympics in 1992 at the age of
21, it seems I may have peaked and lost my ‘fire’
too early, and eventually stopped playing for the
national team at a relatively young age of 24.
This was when I moved to Penang for a job
opportunity, and now, I sometimes look back
and think that I may not have fulfilled my full
potential … and could have played for a longer
period of time in my younger days, like many of
my team mates.
Franciscans Reunion game together with fellow Olympians Michael Chew & Paul Lopez
Young Dhaarma as a player
6. How did you venture into the coaching arena and what was the rst team that you coached?
When I was a player, even at the U-15 level, I find that I had the ability to teach players on many aspects of the
game, including difficult skills.
It is something special that I felt I possessed even back then as a player, to help the team perform and achieve the results that we needed.
I was always one of the most outspoken team member during team
meetings.
One day I woke up and told my wife
that I had a dream, and that I
wanted to be a coach. Having not
fulfilled my full potential as a player,
I felt I needed to fill this gap with my
coaching ability.
Also, that if one had an ability, one
should maximise the use of that
ability. And at that time, I truly
believed that I would one day be one
of the best coaches in the world.
With that, I made an immediate
switch into coaching in 2007, taking
up a coaching position for the KL
development teams (U-14 and
U-16). I think I did well in that role,
winning the U-16 title 5 years in a
row. The U-14 team was also
runners-up for 2 years, and 4 years
as champions in MHC tournament.
These results really got me noticed
for my coaching ability that eventually took me into the national coaching set-up. For this, I am eternally
grateful to George Koshy who
believed in me and opened the door
to me when he was in KLHA.
Thank you George!
At that time in 2001, there was also
a special coaching program developed by Datuk Ho Koh Chye. I
joined this program and successfully
completed Level 1, 2 and 3 within
one month.
This did not go well with some of
the other more senior coaches… but
after 12 years, I managed to prove
my worth as I won the best coach
award in Anugerah Sukan Negara
2013.
Young coach Dhaarma in 2008
Coaching the Malaysian Tigress team
With the Malaysian Tigress team!
I Believe Everything is Possible!
Coach of the Year 2013
9. When selecting a team, what
attributes do you look for in a
player? And why are these attributes most important
The most important attribute is the
cleverness or intelligence to play the
game at a high level. I want players
who can perform in games, especially in big matches, and not only in
training.
I also look for players with courage,
on top of creativity and game intelligence. If we are able to channel their
abilities correctly, and guide them
accordingly, these players will bring
you success.
In 2013, I took many players who
were deemed to be ‘gangsters’, ‘samsengs’ and ‘rascals’, as I believe
I was able to harness their strengths
and utilize them well in tough games
to achieve success (although I am
not a ‘gangster’ myself!). The result
speaks for themselves.
10. How do you build rapport
and respect with the players and
fellow coaching staff?
I believe player management is one
of my strong skill as a coach.
Although I scold the players, they
still respect me, as they know I am
honest in my dealings with them –
to go beyond the confines of the
hockey pitch to assist them with
personal and even financial issues.
This, I feel, touches the hearts of the
players, even though I am very
tough as a coach, and most players
(and assistant coaches as well!) have
a good relationship with me.
Also, mutual respect and good
relationship with assistant coaches,
is also really important, as they play
a pivotal role in the team, especially
with the demands of international
hockey.
We need to ensure that everyone in
the team are moving in the same
direction, in order to achieve
success as a team.
11. Tell us about the most memorable/proudest moment(s) you
have experienced as a coach
I am proud of the many achievements that I have achieved as a
coach, but the best moment was
when we won the 2012 Hockey
Junior Asia Cup.
I was confident that we could win
the cup, although we only needed to
qualify as top 4 teams to make it to
the Junior World Cup tournament.
There were many people who did
not believe this was possible, and
even laughed at my suggestion that
we could win the 2012 Hockey
Junior Asia Cup.
When we actually won it, many
people now recognize me for my
coaching ability and achievement. I
really feel appreciated and it gives
me a lot of satisfaction, when people
recognize me on the street.
You can read more about my journey in my book ‘Siapa Datang Kita
Langgar’.
I also subsequently brought our
Malaysian Tigress one step shy of
qualifying for the Ladies Hockey
World Cup!
Another proud moment was when I
coached the Malaysian Indoor Ladies Hockey team to the gold
medal in the Manila SEA Games
with only 2 months to prepare, and
beating Thailand (who was ranked
17 in the world and had gone on a
European tour to prepare for the
games, compared to Malaysia who
was 33rd ranked in the world).
That was also my final assignment
as a national coach in Malaysia.
Always with the boys – Buka Puasa with Jawa Barat team
Training before Sahur during fasting month!
Local coaches – Iman Gobinathan, Dhaarma, Lim Chiow Chuan, Nor Azlan Bakar
Makan-makan with my fellow coach – Roslan Jamaluddin
Friends from Singapore Hockey – Mohd Ali, Dr Valdew, Teng KS, Ronnie Yeo and Farouk Marican
Reunion of the SOJC Hockey team of 2013
With my brothers, Vijay and Embaraj, at ‘Siapa Datang Kita Langgar’ book launch
12. What do you still aspire
today to achieve as a coach or
mentor? Any regrets as a coach?
I have no regrets as a coach.
It was a decision that I made and am
glad that I have been able to maximise to use of my abilities despite
the pressure, especially the 11 years
when I was in the Malaysia national
coaching set-up, facing various challenges and the toll it took on my
physical and mental health.
Age is catching up on me, so I’m
happy to now be able to contribute
as the Technical Consultant for
Indonesia Hockey.
13. Any last words for aspiring
hockey players and/or coaches?
I believe that whatever we do, we
must do as best, as we only have one
chance to prove ourselves in this
world, especially when we are given
an opportunity.
Today, when I meet some of my
ex-players from 10 years ago, we
talk about those days when I spent
so much time with them to make
sure we did things right and gave our
best.
Coaches need to be ready to take on
any form of challenges, eg team
selection, disciplinary issues, game
analytics, team tactics… not only
conducting trainings with cones and
going home.
You have to think hockey all the time, at home, on weekends, on off days, after trainings etc to plan and execute
what needs to be done to make players and the team better.
Players need to have a lot of match experience and develop their game intelligence. Playing a game is all about
using the right skills and have the courage to making the right decisions on the field, and this separates the great
players from mediocre players.
Always popular with the kids
Women’s Inddor Hockey Champions in Manila
SEA Games 201
A common scene back in the national coaching days